Suppose I say to you, "I need new glasses," and then I ask you for suggestions. What are you likely to say in reply?
We actually ask this question early on in our workshops. We get thoughtful, earnest answers. One participant may ask whether we need prescription lenses or just reading glasses. Another may suggest we check out the local Lens Crafters. A third will give us the number of his cousin the ophthalmologist.
All of them, in good faith and with a real desire to help, will bring their individual solutions to bear on what they see as our problem. All of them, without fail, believe that the problem prompting the comment is poor eyesight - and, they're ready with solutions perfectly tailored to address it.